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The Calm Reset

If you feel anxious, braced, overwhelmed, or stuck in overthinking — this is a small return to safety. No perfect conditions needed.

Soft truth: This is first aid. If you need this often, that isn’t failure — it’s your body asking for more support. Therapy helps with the pattern (not just the moment).
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THE 5 STEPS
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Say: “My body is activated. I am not in danger — I am dysregulated.”

Drop shoulders. Unclench jaw. Let tongue rest. Signal: safe enough.

Exhale slow. Pause 1 beat. Inhale gentle. Exhale longer. Repeat 4–5.

Name 3 neutral things you see. Remind the brain: here, now, safe enough.

Ask: “What does my body need in the next 10 minutes?” Keep it small.

A note from Helen: If this helped even a little, your system responded to safety. If you need this often, that’s not failure — it’s information. You don’t have to do this alone.
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Keep it on your phone.

Short tools you can reuse when your body starts bracing.

Tip: If you freeze, open the PDF and read one line. Short is strong.
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If you want support with the pattern.

If your nervous system lives in “on-call mode,” therapy can help you build steadier safety over time. We start small, with structure.

Consult is a fit check. If I’m not the right person, I’ll tell you and point you elsewhere.